Timing my orgasms so that I cum at the same time as the other person is so hot. It’s like the ultimate in terms of sexiness and connection.
if you are looking online for people to cum together with, I suggest trying out some sex chat sites. If those don’t cut it, there are also kinky cam models who specialize in BDSM.
Adult Friend Finder is great for in-person.
If you are feeling adventurous online, why not try the live cams on the BDSM dating site Alt.com.
And if all else fails, try the kinky ladies and cam models at FetishFix or Chaturbate.